Some times I get extremely sick and tired of people who do not understanding the obvious. Anyways, I am going to make more time for my girlfriends and female friends for a while since I am over loaded with testosterone!!This weekend, Saturday I am going for a wedding and Sunday I am going to watch a movie with Anna. Anna has recently had a huge abdomen's surgery and I like to cheer her up by going to movies with her:)I want to make time for Melissa and the girls I met at GSK as well. I guess in the coming weeks. I might go and visit Purdue and probably will attend Novopharm's Christmas party. Today a girl from another department came to me and asked me if I want to go for lunch and I said yes and joined her and her friend with Shaf, my classamte at U of T. We ended up having a great conversation and realizing that she is a chemical engineer as well. We talked about U of T and talked about future. It was fun. I hope I can find the people I want to find, to ask my future career questions. Listening to people from different backgrounds and ages are always interesting to me. I never get bored of it. How long have you been working here?Oh god I think it has been 16 years!!the lady answered. So you must be pretty happy with this company that you have stayed here so long. I finally heard the sentence that I was looking for, for the past year. The sentence that freaks me out and makes me be single for the rest of my life!!Once you have a family with kids you don't really have the choice to move around and experience different companies or different fields, She said. How can I balance this?How can I convince myself that being married and having kids is not the end of my career life, specially now that I think I have found the love of my life?